This piece from the New York Times by a now grown child of divorce who grew up with two step-parents offers heartfelt advice for parents and step-parents about how to navigate potentially very troubled waters.  This should be required reading for all divorced parents. Here is the link:  http://themanifeststation.net/2016/06/01/divorced-stepdaughters-wish-list/?em_pos=small&ref=headline&nl_art=16