Confused and Abivalent about whether or not to file for divorce and traditional therapy isn’t helping? Try a life coach
When considering a divorce it may be helpful to hire a Life Coach. Coaches offer the opportunity for you to gain clarity on where you are, where you want to go and if divorce is the best way to get there. Chances are you have been living with a range of emotions from emotional distress, uncertainty, loneliness, and fear of the future. All of these emotions are completely normal and at times you may feel like you are on a hamster wheel, going round and round and still not finding a clear resolution to your current situation.
If you are in the midst of a divorce, Coaches partner with you on this journey to help you gain clarity on who you are and where you want to go from here. The divorce process can be overwhelming, understandably you hire a lawyer to protect your financial and possibly, parental interests, as well as navigate the legal world of judges, strategy, motions and best case scenarios. Hiring a Life Coach is an opportunity to: safeguard your emotional wellbeing, embrace your freedom to lead a happier and healthier life, to redefine yourself, reclaim your personal power and consciously choose how you want to live, how you want to parent, where you want to live and work and when you are ready, explore the world of dating!
Going through a divorce may seem like a lesson in survival. What if it was an opportunity for you to thrive? What if you learn from the past and acknowledged what you do and don’t want in your life? What if now is the time to discover what your strengths are? What if you took time for yourself to dream about your best life?
Life Coaches encourage you to take control of your life, even if some days it is only a baby step forward in the direction of your dreams and begin living everyday on purpose!
I refer to myself as a reluctant warrior. I accepted the love I thought I deserved of an emotionally abusive man for 20 years, living with the threat of “If you leave me you will have nothing.” I filed for divorce four years ago and am still in court, he has taken our case to the Missouri Supreme Court (and lost). While I cannot control the legal system, I am thankful for my lawyer who gallantly works fighting my legal battle for me. I have a Master’s Degree in Counseling and sought my Certification in Coaching as a way to peel away at my own onion, chose to live my best life and shine a light for other women on the path. I ask myself, and my clients, “What can you control?” I have transformed my life from the inside out and found I can define and control my happiness! My kids are more confident, independent and thriving, my son was just accepted into his dream school University of Chicago. I dated until I found my dream man, together we create peace, love and gratitude for one another. I am in a career that I love, raising the consciousness of the world one person at a time and building my dream home, a cozy cottage!
I am happy to offer you a complimentary session to explore whether coaching is a good fit for you. Please call or email me to set up a 30 minute phone session.
Truly wishing you all the best,
Happy Hour Life Coach